To get married in the state of New Jersey, blood tests are no longer required; however, a wedding license is required. Apply for your license within 30 days of your wedding date. There is a 72 hour waiting period between the time the application is completed and the license is issued. The full details follow courtesy of The Atlantic City Bureau of Vital Statistics as printed in the brochure "Getting Married in New Jersey."
Where should you apply for your marriage or civil union license?
If the bride is a resident of New Jersey, the marriage license must be obtained from the Registrar of Vital Statistics in the municipality where she lives.
If she is a non-resident of New Jersey and the groom is a resident of New Jersey, the license must be obtained from the Registrar in the municipality in which the groom resides. (For marriage license purposes, soldiers are residents of the posts at which they are stationed.) A license issued under either of the preceding circumstances is good for use anywhere in New Jersey.
If both bride and groom are non-residents of New Jersey, the license must be obtained from the Registrar of the municipality where the marriage is to be performed and is only good for use in that municipality.
A license may never be used outside of New Jersey and a license issued in another state may never be used in New Jersey.
Be sure to contact the Registrar well in advance of the wedding to find out on what days and during what hours the Registrar will be in the office. The license fee (subject to change) is currently $28.00
When should you apply for a marriage license?
A local Registrar will not issue a marriage or civil union license sooner than 72 hours after the application for the license has been made, unless ordered to do so via an appropriate court order.
If the ceremony is scheduled for a Saturday or Sunday, the application should be made no later than the preceding Tuesday. If the application is made on a Wednesday or Thursday, the 72 hours will end on Saturday or Sunday, but the Registrar will probably not be available on those days or on any public holiday.
If both the bride and groom are unavailable to complete the application at the same time, either applicant may complete his/her part of the application and start the waiting period. The other applicant must return with the same witness (who must be at least 18 years old) to complete his/her part of the application. The application must be completed by both parties before the license will be issued. Once the marriage/civil union license is issued, it is good for 30 days from the date of issuance.
A couple wishing to have both religious and civil ceremonies may be issued a license for both ceremonies on the basis of a single application. However, a couple wishing to have two religious ceremonies, and wanting to have a public record of each, may not have two licenses issued at the same time. They must apply for and use the first license. They must then return to the Registrar with the signed original certificate of marriage and a witness to apply for a remarriage license.
What should you bring with you when you apply?
A birth certificate is usually requested for proof of age and parentage. In Atlantic City (please check with your local town hall) social security cards are also needed. Also needed is a photo ID (license or passport) and proof of residence for each party that is current (ex - utility bill; a driver's license is not accepted for this purpose).
If one or both of the applicants are divorced, you should bring a copy of the final decree or decrees for examination by the Registrar or a statement by the judge as to when the final decree was signed (not the date of the final hearing).
Rev. Riana will want copies of all documents that you present for the city clerk to prove your identity, except your Social Security card; at time of your ceremony planning meeting (mail in advance if doing the Simple Ceremony). Please remember to pick up and bring your license to your ceremony, your marriage or civil union ceremony is not legal unless the paperwork is signed!
Consent of both parents is necessary if an applicant is under 18 years of age. Both parental consents and judicial approval of such consents are necessary if the applicant is younger than 16. These consents should be on forms supplied by the Registrar.
Where should the marriage record be filed?
The person performing a marriage ceremony must file the license and marriage certificate with the Registrar of the municipality in which the marriage was performed. Since failure to record the marriage may cause considerable inconvenience at a later date when proof of marriage is needed, you should make sure that this has been done.
For additional questions:
Call the Registrar of Vital Statistics in your town, usually located within your town or city's local town hall.
Locations for Ceremonies
Atlantic City has a number of scenic locations for small weddings and civil unions. Beach ceremonies are also quite popular whether it’s a vow renewal or a ceremony with 100 guests. The individual casinos do not have drive through chapels as they do in Las Vegas. If you choose to have a beach ceremony and combine it with a stay at one of the casinos or area hotels, please note that there is a 72 hour waiting period to get a wedding license in the state of New Jersey (see above).
To renew your vows you would need to bring a certified copy of your marriage license. For vow renewals you don't have to wait the 72 hours.
For additional information on beach sites and what permits are required for a beach ceremony contact each town’s City Hall, Dept of Marriage and Civil Union Licenses.
For help in acquiring professionals for your ceremony, see the Referrals & References page on this web site, or call and ask Rev. Riana Milne at 609-601-7884.
